My eldest sister chatted with me for awhile last night and she confided to me that our youngest sister, a registered nurse and 23 years young , has finally fallen in love and has a boyfriend now. My reaction, as expected was : what?!! sino yun ? Matino ba? Anong work nun?? Kelan pa and etc., etc..
I don’t know if I should be happy or sad. But okay , since I’m very honest I’ll say it, I got sad when I learned about that but I know it’s something that’s bound to happen and she can’t be our baby forever . Since her getting married is inevitable (but I hope that would be like maybe five years from now) , here’s what I’ve got to say when that time comes…
” Sigurado ka na ba sa gagawin mo ?”
” Ang pag-aasawa ay hindi parang kaning isusubo ..”
” Ang pag- aasawa ay parang isang masamang panaginip, isang bangungot habang ika’y gising …”
” Para kang kumuhang batong ipupukpok sa ulo mo … ”
” Gusto mo na ding lumagay sa magulo??? … ”
” Goodluck, good health, God bless you …” ( kakailanganin mo yan ,pramiz )
” True na ba talaga yan , di ka mag-sisi ?? ” ( Is that your final answer? )
” Hay naku iha, pag- isipan mo yang maigi … ”
” Akala mo lang paraiso ang pupuntahan mo. Akala mo lang yon, but the truth is .. ito’y isang kalbaryo.. “
I know my lil’ sistah will be laughing when she reads this but really Len, pag- isipan mo yan huh ? I’m just trying to be funny here but honey, you don’t want to know the deep secrets that wives have about their marriages. It’s not all fine and dandy everyday. Men change after we marry them. But if you are really bent on marrying that special guy someday ( maybe five years or more from this date of writing), I tell you, be afraid. Be very afraid, and brace yourself heheheh.. and don’t tell me someday, ” kasi Ate, you did not warn me eh… (hu-hu-hu). ”
Lakas kong manakot noh ? 
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ummmm charannnnnnnnnnnnnnnn.. i like your advises.. almost perfect.. and I understand how you feel.
On my case naman.. am just glad.. kasi my husband exceed my expectations after marriage pero waaaaaaaaa iba sila hahahhaha i mean tayo mga pinoy strong family ties ba yon sila so far oo nman strong din pero iba pa rin tayo.. tayo kahit isusubo na lang natin ibibigay pa sa mas higit na nangangailangan.. So nagwork na lang ako hi hi (palusot)
umm.. ako lagi ako pasalamat sa Diyos kasi ni minsan di kami nag away since dumating ako d2.. ako nang aaway pero lalo akong naiinis kasi di sumasagot, tinutulugan ako or lumalabas sya ng house waaaaaaaaa gusto ko ung papatulan ako para matapos agad sintemiento ko hahahah kapag may tupak ako para akong sadista (lalo na kapag monthly cycle natin) parang kabilugan ng buwan.. Pero sa totoo lang, miss na miss ko na sa PInas.. ayaw ko pagkain dito mas gusto ko pa rin mga pagkain saten nasabi mang mabaho palengke natin pero sulit ako hay buhay oo.. tao talaga minsan walang kakontentohan.
Pero tama yang advise mo mareng inna.. kasi for me, ayaw ko din sya matulad sa youngest princess namin na after makasal civil yong guy ayon nagpaconvert na muslim sa saudi arabia and got another wife eh muntik nang mabaliw sis ko.. ganda pa nman sayang.. Tapos kaya ako umabot ng halos trenta ayaw mag asawa dati kc turn off ko sa mga older sis ko.. 7 kaming girls and take note malas lahat halos sa mga asawa nila. So ako nagpray talga sabi ko sa Lord.. gusto ko ibreak ang mga bad records ng mga asawa nila kaya naging pihikan ako sobra.. Ok lang na hindi mayaman ang asawa basta mayaman sa pagmamahal yon ang importante..
finally I AM HAPPILY MARRIED WOMAN..
GOD BLESS US ALL
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