Marital Woes…

Not too much in the mood yet to write anything but I have  a lot of questions in my mind tonight like…

..why do people have to get married ?

…why does a spouse change after you marry him ?

…how can somebody you love be so irritating sometimes ?

…how can somebody who says he loves you be so uncaring at the same time ?

…why does the wife have to do all the household chores ? Is she his mother and maid rolled into one ???

…how does a wife keeps her cool with all the infuriating things her husband does ?

…how do you keep the music playing ??? este, how do you keep the love alive when you feel you’re just being used ???   

…am I the only one who feels this helplessness, frustration, rage ???

So many questions but the answers are too few, goes the song.. Ganito ba talaga ang may asawa?  Sana may pumigil sa min nong sinabi naming “we’re getting married” ….. 

But hay naku, I don’t know. Maybe I am wrong, maybe all marriages are like this.  I don’t know really, since this is my first time to be married but who knows the second time will be better ?? hahahahh, I am definitely just kidding but I believe marriage for the first time is a mistake, the second one will be utter stupidity

Hay buhay may-asawa, parang buhok, minsan magulo, minsan ayos na ayos ….

P. S.

Don’t worry, I have no intentions of divorcing my  husband, nagtatanong lang po mga ate, kuya …

For all his faults and flaws, after careful consideration, I decided that my husband is one for keeps, kahit nga kung minsan eh talagang kakainis sya to the max …